I was accused of playing the dating game. He said that he knew I was talking to other men and that was OK but he felt like he had no control over the game.
He's right, I do play the dating game. Not by choice but because that's how the cards are dealt. I have read and spoken to others who experience the same as I with men. You start off emailing with them, they seem interested, you share details and things are going along - then poof, their gone. Never to be heard from again. So yes I play the game to protect myself.
Until we get to a meeting, I am looking out for myself. I am questioning everything they say until I can determine if they are worthy of the next step. Being completely honest there are levels - email, messenger, phone, meeting.
If they become to aggressive, if they say something that sets off a warning bell, if they are an extreme sadist, express a feeling of desire or love over email or messenger, etc., then they don't make it to the next level. Very similar to vanilla dating.
Just because I am submissive doesn't mean I will accept anything. I am looking for something special. I am looking for a dominant man who wants a long term relationship and not just play time. I want relationship that combines D/s and vanilla, with someone who is honest and in control of himself and his life. I am looking for an honest open relationship where I can share my submission with a dominant man, it seems so simple yet so complicated.
Last time I checked I wasn't in a relationship with a commitment so yes I play the dating game, looking for that one.
There are some new players in my game...