I have been reading other submissive blogs and one of the things that was talked about was how did you know you were submissive, think back to your fantasies from when you were younger.
1. I can remember back when I was young playing with my friend that lived near my grandmother. We used to play pirates and I would always be the damsel in distress, I always wanted to be captured and tied up. I can remember laying across a lawn ottoman pretending to be tied to it.
2. As I grew up I remember watching a movie and one of the scenes was the Marque De Sade whipping a girl. Her hands were tied up over her head, suspended from the ceiling but still able to stand on the ground. She had on bodice that came over her shoulders with a corset and he had ripped away her skirt & the back of her bodice and it was just hanging there in shreds. She was enjoying the beating, it seemed to be just the right amount of pain and pleasure because she begged for more and didn't want to be rescued.
3. The other fantasy was being attacked or raped, very taboo in today's society. I didn't want to be hurt for real I just wanted to experience the feelings of being taken and forced. There was also one where the she falls in love with her rapist.
5. Being with an aggressive curvaceous lipstick lesbian who dominates and takes advantage of me.